Not Forgetting But Forgiving Famous Quotes & Sayings
34 Not Forgetting But Forgiving Famous Sayings, Quotes and Quotation.
Forgiving is forgetting, in spite of remembering.— Dag Hammarskjold
Forgiving isn't forgetting. At the core of forgiveness is the understanding that the hatred and bitterness we hold onto destroys us.— Kathryn Kelly
Forgiving isn't meekness. It is letting go of the past, living in the present, and paving the way for the future.
In order to forgive, we must first grieve for what could've been and what never was. To forgive others, we must also forgive ourselves.
Perhaps, that is the hardest forgiveness of all."
Excerpt From: Kelly, Kathryn. "Misbehavior." iBooks.
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Forgiving is all; forgetting is another thing.— Bob Rae
Forgiving is not forgetting. It is remembering and letting go.— Claudia Black
Once we have forgiven, however, we get a new freedom to forget. This time forgetting is a sign of health; it is not a trick to avoid spiritual surgery. We can forget because we have been healed. But even if it is easier to forget after we forgive, we should not make forgetting a test of our forgiving. The test of forgiving lies with healing the lingering pain of the past, not with forgetting the past has ever happened.— Lewis B. Smedes
Forgetting hurts the heart, but forgiving rejuvenates it.— Debasish Mridha
Forgiving is not about forgetting, it's letting go of the hurt— Mary McLeod Bethune
Forgive but do not forget, or you will be hurt again. Forgiving changes the perspectives. Forgetting loses the lesson.— Paulo Coelho
...forgiving is not the same as forgetting.— Cecily Von Ziegesar
Wherever we go we do harm, forgiving— Jim Harrison
ourselves as wheels do cement for wearing
each other out. We set this house
on fire, forgetting that we live within.
(from "To a Meadowlark," for M.L. Smoker)
Besides, his father and uncles were old, and the old lords were like that; they took their dusty feuds to the grave, forgetting nothing and forgiving less.— George R R Martin
Was it you that killed me, or did I kill you?" Abel answered. "I don't remember anymore; here we are, together, like before."— Jorge Luis Borges
"Now I know that you have truly forgiven me," Cain said, "because forgetting is forgiving. I, too, will try to forget.
Yes, suddenly I saw it clearly: most people deceive themselves with a pair of faiths: they believe in eternal memory (of people, things, deeds, nations) and in redressibility (of deeds, mistakes, sins, wrongs). Both are false faiths. In reality the opposite is true: everything will be forgotten and nothing will be redressed. The task of obtaining redress (by vengeance or by forgiveness) will be taken over by forgetting. No one will redress the wrongs that have been done, but all wrongs will be forgotten.— Milan Kundera
Forgiving presupposes remembering. And it creates a forgetting not in the natural way we forget yesterday's weather, but in the way of the great "in spite of" that says: I forget although I remember. Without this kind of forgetting no human relationship can endure healthily. I don't refer to a solemn act of asking for and offering forgiveness. Such rituals as sometimes occur between parents and children, or friends, or man and wife, are often acts of moral arrogance on the one part and enforced humiliation on the other. But I speak of the lasting willingness to accept him who has hurt us.— Paul Tillich
South Africans must recall the terrible past so that we can deal with it, forgiving where forgiveness is necessary but never forgetting.— Nelson Mandela
Her years in Gibson started a healing process. It began with faith, and forgiving. But healing didn't mean forgetting.— Brenda Minton
But maybe forgetting wasn't necessary. The memories of her childhood provided a backdrop, a place to begin the changes that would make life better. She knew who she didn't want to be.
Be happy by forgiving or forgetting or doing both, but we can gain no happiness by holding grudges.— Dinesh Kumar Radhakrishnan
Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering— Desmond Tutu
remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
When people talk about how fast children forget, how fast they forgive, how sensitive they are, I let it go in one ear and out the other. Children can remember and forget and totally freeze to death the people they don't like.— Peter Hoeg Miss Smilla's Feeling For Snow
When love comes easy, forgiving is hard and forgetting even harder.— Shampa Sharma
Forgiving is not forgetting. Forgiving is remembering without pain.— Celia Cruz
I do believe in forgiving and forgetting. There was a reason we were together. I just want to hold on to the good times.— Eva Longoria
Before you reach the point of forgiveness, you go through the phase where you pray... for every possible misfortune and ill luck to strike them dead while you sit and watch.— Joyce Rachelle
FORGIVING is FOR GIVING to others and if it is meant FOR GETTING to ourselves then should it not be termed as FORGETTING ourselves.— Anuj
The amusement she had drawn from their disapproval was a slavish remnant, a derisive dance on the north bank of the Ohio. There was no question of forgiving them. She had not, in any case, a forgiving nature; and the injury they had done her was not done by them. If she were to start forgiving she must needs forgive Society, the Law, the Church, the History of Europe, the Old Testament, great-great-aunt Salome and her prayer-book, the Bank of England, Prostitution, the Architect of Apsley Terrace, and half a dozen other useful props of civilization. All she could do was to go on forgetting them. But now she was able to forget them without flouting them by her forgetfulness.— Sylvia Townsend Warner
You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them. I tie no weights to my ankles.— C. JoyBell C.
God's forgiving and forgetting heart doesn't document every mistake we commit.— Euginia Herlihy
Can you stop your memory on a dime, put it in reverse, and spin it in another direction the way you can reverse direction on a tape recorder? We cannot forget on command. So we just have to let the forgetting happen as it will; we shouldn't rush it, and we certainly should not doubt the genuineness of our forgiving if we happen to remember. The really important thing is that we have the power to forgive what we still do remember.— Lewis B. Smedes
And I thought - not for the first time - that forgiving and forgetting aren't mutually exclusive.— Jodi Picoult
Forgiving yourself is the first step, forgetting, well it never goes away. Moving forward and walking with one foot in front of the other does get you somewhere. Just keep walking.— Shellie Palmer
Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting, nor does it mean approving of, what someone did. It just means that you're letting go of the anger toward that person.— Frank Sonnenberg
We recall our terrible past so that we can deal with it, to forgive where forgiveness is necessary, without forgetting; to ensure that never again will such inhumanity tear us apart; and to move ourselves to eradicate a legacy that lurks dangerously as a threat to our democracy.— Nelson Mandela
Morning not only forgives, it forgets.— Marty Rubin
But what? But it was just so much easier to deal with the old pain by ignoring it? Forgetting it? Andy's presence meant having to actively work at forgiving him, and that was hard. Forgetting was much easier than forgiving— Diana Killian
forgiving was an on-going process that had to continue past the dramatic declarations of apology and absolution.
